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ceallach67']Actually I consider a male who sleeps around a whore too.

I take it you are a girl?

 

I am. And that means?

 

I know many a male friend who has expressed the same.

 

 

It means that you are more likely to think of a guy as a "whore" who sleeps around.  I'm not sure many girls would give a guy a pat on the back for sleeping around ... it would be more likely for guys to do that to each other.

 

Again, as I said, "more likely for guys" ... not all guys so I'm not surprised that many a male friend expressed the same thoughts as you. 
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Good point, good point.  I sense that I could easily have offended you by what I wrote if I didn't explain myself.  It just proves the whole Solomon thing:

 

"Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to take offence...."

 

This goes for ANY discussion on here.  smile.gif

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QUESTION: Why is it that if a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he's considered "The Man", but if a girl sleeps with a lot of guys she is considered a "whore" or a "slut"?

 

ANSWER: Think about it this way:  If a key can open a lot of doors it is considered a master key and is awesome to have, but if a lock can be opened by a lot of different keys, well that's a pretty crap lock!

or a puta?! laugh.gifCan I say that on tv?! 

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it's like this in almost every culture. I remember talking to this morrocan girl who washed my hair at the hairdressers and i told her about my cousin who married this morrocan girl. and how her family abandoned her right away, dont even wana look at their grandson. they cross the street when they run in to her ...

the girl told me she was very sure her parents would react in exactly the same way if she would marry a belgian guy, shewould be considered to be a whore....but her brother married a belgian girl  and that wasnt a problem at all...

 

and you notice it at our locale swimmingpools in the summer... you only see the moslim boys there, in swimsuit's, sunbathing, playing in the water, and if the girls do come, they're on the grass, fully dressed... but meanwhile the boys are feeding their eyes with all the female flesh around them...

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your analogy is amusing, bandcompletely! but things like this make me angry, being an emancipated girl...mad.gif

In the words of Gwen Stefani:

 

'Cause I'm just a girl, little 'ol me
Don't let me out of your sight
I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights

 

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your analogy is amusing, bandcompletely! but things like this make me angry, being an emancipated girl...mad.gif

In the words of Gwen Stefani:

 

'Cause I'm just a girl, little 'ol me
Don't let me out of your sight
I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights

 

tongue.gif

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[quote name='ceallach67 wrote:


barbara1']your analogy is amusing, bandcompletely! but things like this make me angry, being an emancipated girl...
mad.gif

In the words of Gwen Stefani:

 

'Cause I'm just a girl, little 'ol me
Don't let me out of your sight
I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights

 

tongue.gif

 

love that song!! also the one by dirty christina :

 

'cant hold us down'

 

 

So-What am i not s'pposed to have an opinion?

Should i be quiet to speak because i'm a woman?

Call me a bitch cause i speak what's on my mind

Guess it's easier for you to swallow if i sat and smiled

 

When a female fires back

suddenly big talker don't know how to act

So he does what any little boy would do

Makin' up a few false rumors or two

That for sure is not a man to me

Slanderin' names for popularity

It's sad you only get your fame through controversy

But now it's time for me to come and give you more to say

 

This is for my girls all around the world

Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth

Thinkin' all women should be seen, not heard

 

So what am i not supposed to say what i'm saying

Are you offended with the message i'm bringin'

Call me whatever 'cause your words don't mean a thing

Cuz you ain't even a man enough to handle what i sing

If you look back in history it's a common double standard of society

The guy gets all the glory, the more he can score

While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore

I don't understand why its OK,

The guy can get away with it while a girl gets named

All my ladies come together and make a change

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