Subscriber barbara1 95 Posted November 9, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 sorry to hear bout your friend, shirley. i do get how you don want the scums to win, but i also get how this lady wants to be safe. glad she wasnt badly harmed, could have gone much worse... Link to post Share on other sites
illumination70 266 Posted November 9, 2010 Share Posted November 9, 2010 [quote name='shirley2010 wrote: illumination70'] Slightly irritated because in my neck of the woods, women (especially me) are constantly advised to give up our hopes and dreams for the future in order to make life easier for others. Your life is your own Illumi and you are obligated to no-one but yourself. You may choose to be responsible for others as you go through life but you are given a path all of your own and each day you step on it. Your hopes and dreams are what light your way in your darkest hours of despair. No-one on this Earth has any right to 'advise' you to give them up because you will be one miserable, bitter, resentful person if you do. Women are like plants and should be allowed to bloom. They need the rays of encouragement like the rays of the sun. If left unattended without attention for too long they wither and die. I know of an elderly lady who has recently just learned to swim - she is now 76. You are never too old and it is never too late. If you are a parent your dreams may be delayed for a while because we put our children first - but you should love yourself just as much as you are a child of creation and you were born to create. I remember watching Rosanne Barr on t.v. once in an interview and she explained that you cannot share abundance in life until your cup is overflowing. If you are not truly happy then you cannot help others to be happy either. If your cup is not full then if can easily be emptied by others who drink from it and if you continue to give to others while your cup is not overflowing then you will eventually be drained. It is not about being selfish (I am not happy with that word at all) It is about being self full selful. When an aeroplane is going down and the oxygen masks come out you are advised to put your own on first and then help others. If you love god you should love yourself because you are a part of god - Then love your neighbour. God wants you to be happy so you go for it girl! Listen to your own heart beating not others bleating. xxxxxxxxx 00000000000 xxxxxxxxxx Thanks for the advice because the last thing I want is to wind up a bitter old woman down the road!! Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber kerttuli 2 Posted November 9, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 I've been writing an essay almost the whole day.... So the deadline is tomorrow morning and it wasn't so easy than I thought. Why, WHY do I always have to do everything at the last moment...??? For some reason I just can't do most of the things (schoolworks, cleaning house before it's a real mess etc) in good time... trying to learn out of it and start doing things early but seems like it never happens... Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber kerttuli 2 Posted November 9, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 my mood tends to yoyo a lot Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber Zhivvy 595 Posted November 9, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 [quote name='barbara1 wrote: Lemonhead wrote: Zhivvy wrote: Lemonhead wrote: Zhivvy']Sleepy mood - and cold too - My God I think there are polar bears in the garden! uh oh! We forgot to mention those Fukitol pills give you hallucinations So I am inagining the rain and wind too? Cool, it really is a summer's day! Zhivvy rushes upstairs to change into shorts and t-shirt!!!! Put it this way, if the polar bears you're seeing in the garden are in their swim suits playing beach volley, then yes I reckon you'll be safe in shorts and t-shirt that image is stuck in my head now... i mean the bears not zhiv in shorts Surely my pasty white legs in shorts are imprinted in your mind anyway lol! Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber 123love 173 Posted November 9, 2010 Author Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 [quote name=kerttuli wrote: Anjana]my mood tends to yoyo a lot oh so cute! Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber 123love 173 Posted November 9, 2010 Author Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 Oh im in a Good mood just tired as usual, was wondering about the new things u2 has for Australia ) Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber barbara1 95 Posted November 9, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 9, 2010 I've been writing an essay almost the whole day....So the deadline is tomorrow morning and it wasn't so easy than I thought. Why, WHY do I always have to do everything at the last moment...??? For some reason I just can't do most of the things (schoolworks, cleaning house before it's a real mess etc) in good time... trying to learn out of it and start doing things early but seems like it never happens... you're in great company, kert. cause according to the bandmembers in u2 by u2, bono is known (and hated, lol) for putting off things till the very last moment, and then rushing to get them done in time.btw, so is my love....so very good company indeed! Link to post Share on other sites
mummy 0 Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 I'm stressed out. Most of it is good stress. I'm extremely busy at the moment.... and it looks like I'll be busy with design change implementations for the whole of November. It's easy enough doing one's own work but managing groups of individuals across numerous functions can be quite an ordeal but, so far so good. I'm just looking forward to mid December because I'll be on vacation for a whole month.... and a much needed break it will be! And then when I come back in the New Year, it will be whole new ball game for me...! So, I guess, this stress will be worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Subscriber shirley2010 8 Posted November 10, 2010 Subscriber Share Posted November 10, 2010 I'm stressed out. Most of it is good stress. I'm extremely busy at the moment.... and it looks like I'll be busy with design change implementations for the whole of November. It's easy enough doing one's own work but managing groups of individuals across numerous functions can be quite an ordeal but, so far so good. I'm just looking forward to mid December because I'll be on vacation for a whole month.... and a much needed break it will be! And then when I come back in the New Year, it will be whole new ball game for me...! So, I guess, this stress will be worth it.Spoken like a true leader. xox Link to post Share on other sites
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