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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Yes! Bono's! We're justified till then when we'll magnify.

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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Yes! Bono's! We're justified till then when we'll magnify.

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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Yes! Bono's! We're justified till then when we'll magnify.

 

 

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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Yes! Bono's! We're justified till then when we'll magnify.

 

 

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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Yes! Bono's! We're justified till then when we'll magnify.

 

 

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bex Red Devil 4 Eva wrote:

How do you cope?

I expect a bit of an explanation is required yes?

a) I turn 19 on Sunday

B)
My fiance dumped me last week as he is "confused"

c) My aunty died of cancer yesterday morning, I cant go to the funeral

d) I have numerous health tests on Tuesday in the doctors

e) I have not spoken to love of my life since he dumped me but his best mate insists he loves me.

f) U2 forum has only just started liking me again!
:P

 

Any pearls of wisdom or advice?

Sorry to hear about your aunt. Death is never easy, but the pain does subside with time.

 

As for the "love of your life," hang in there. If he truly is, things will work out. You are young and there is plenty of time for things to workout.

 

Surround yourself with any friends and family that you are in close contact with them and draw on their strength.

 

When things are bad for me, I just pretend life is a game and figure out how to beat it!

 

Hang in there.

 

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Happy birthday, first of all.

 

Hang in there, somehow it will all get better. I hope you have someone yuo can talk to and lean on, like your mother, a best friend. just someone who is alwaysthere for you and understands.

 

((((((hugs))))) to you, my dear.

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Man, 19. I can't remember anything from that year. I think I was dumped once or twice that summer. I think I thought it was the end of the world each time.Still, you have to realize that there more nights and sunrises and don't be in a rush to live a normal life. Throw some punches and relish in your abilityto reinvent yourself several more times . The 20's are a period of rebirth. Just go!

I'm turning 40 in May. The only recipe I can give when the night gets too dark: God, family, good music, a good book, a long bike ride.

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a) Be happy for being alive (as opposed to dying in a hospital bed) and celebrate life!

B) You're better off being momentaneously single and free to meet the right person than marrying the wrong one and end up slippiting up in the long run.When I was 24 y.o. my boyfriend dumped me too. We were finishing college. I thought getting married was the next step (after graduating). Today I'm sothankful he did it. I made the most of my life, travelled to Ireland, which was something I wanted to do for a long time. Now I'm married to the best manin the world. I'm so happy I think it can't get better than this I may be dying soon. lol Seriously, please look forward to the future.

c) Funeral memories can't be happy ones. Think of the good times you shared with her instead. This is what I do in relation to my grandfather, whosefuneral I couldn't attend either.

d) Many can't afford to look after their health. See it from the bright side...

e) The best thing you can do to someone who's confused is give them time to think otherwise they may feel underpressure. Don't miss opportunities inthe meantime. You can't wait forever. You've got your own life to live.

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