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This was last year, but I wish you all a 2010 with lots of fireworks-like highlights in it !
Especially to all who had a less fortunate 2009 ... : may 2010 be better and bring you what you wish for.

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First time in this thread but it seemed like the proper place to wish everyone a Happy New Year. So... HAPPY NEW YEAR all! Hoping everyone has a safe and wonderful new year celebration no matter what your plans are. And wishes for a blessed 2010 for everyone.

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First time in this thread but it seemed like the proper place to wish everyone a Happy New Year. So... HAPPY NEW YEAR all! Hoping everyone has a safe and wonderful new year celebration no matter what your plans are. And wishes for a blessed 2010 for everyone.

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Thank you for the new years wishes Jojes hope you have a good one too!

123 - Don't worry too much abouteverything. Go out on a date with this guy - he could be the one, but he may not be. Don't think about that just think about going out for an evening with a really nice man and then see what happens. You clearly believe in soul mate etc.. but that doesn't mean that you can't meet some one else. Don't just sit there and wait for a man you've seen in your head to appear. Go out have fun, whilst waiting for the man in your head or another amzing man who comes along and deserves you.

Well I guess for you it's nealry midnight 123- so happy 2010 with lots of love from England

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Hi girls , go straight to the point , I have this vivid picture of who my future husband is in my mind or I should say my soul mate who is my match my flame but have never met him or know if It will ever happen and im so very frightened that I may never meet him and just waste my life lonely and sad waiting for nothing and knocking back opportunities ........... See Im supposed to go on a date monday with this guy Archie_428Archie_428oops dont think the pic is working ? anyway Im thinking of calling it off because I dont want to get serious and then couple years down the track find my true soul mate has decided to show up when of coarse I'd pick my soul mate over anybody but its too late when your married to someone else ?Was almost in tears with this conversation with my mum , I dont think she gets the seriousness of it all , cause I cant just divorce thats like adultery and cruel not to mention ruin the foundation in my life God's care and my abode :o( so im pretty sad and I dont want to waste my time or anyone elses I just wish I could be sure and certain of some things , so frightened of waiting for nothing ................*face drops *

 

Any advice please............thanks in advance

 

My advice;  stop worrying about it.  Seriously.  The old added cliche is that you find love when you aren't looking for it.  Love will find you, without having to search for it. What you may have in your mind's eye as your soul mate may not be the person you will find who is meant for you or the person you click with.  It's all about how you feel with this person and not what you expect a person should be.  And,  not everyone you meet has to be your soul mate to spend time with them and have a good time with them.  They may just end up being a good friend.  So I say,  go on the date and see how it goes.  If it turns out this guy is a jerk and not a person you want in your life, don't date them again.  Go in without expectations with the exception of just expecting to share some time with another person.  You don't have to marry the guy,  just spend a couple hours or so.  It's not a committment,  it's a date.  No pressures. Get dressed up, go out and enjoy yourself. Give yourself a break, ease your mind and worry over what may or may not happen in the future and take the time now to enjoy yourself and love the person you are.

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Hi girls , go straight to the point , I have this vivid picture of who my future husband is in my mind or I should say my soul mate who is my match my flame but have never met him or know if It will ever happen and im so very frightened that I may never meet him and just waste my life lonely and sad waiting for nothing and knocking back opportunities ........... See Im supposed to go on a date monday with this guy Archie_428Archie_428oops dont think the pic is working ? anyway Im thinking of calling it off because I dont want to get serious and then couple years down the track find my true soul mate has decided to show up when of coarse I'd pick my soul mate over anybody but its too late when your married to someone else ?Was almost in tears with this conversation with my mum , I dont think she gets the seriousness of it all , cause I cant just divorce thats like adultery and cruel not to mention ruin the foundation in my life God's care and my abode :o( so im pretty sad and I dont want to waste my time or anyone elses I just wish I could be sure and certain of some things , so frightened of waiting for nothing ................*face drops *

 

Any advice please............thanks in advance

 

My advice;  stop worrying about it.  Seriously.  The old added cliche is that you find love when you aren't looking for it.  Love will find you, without having to search for it. What you may have in your mind's eye as your soul mate may not be the person you will find who is meant for you or the person you click with.  It's all about how you feel with this person and not what you expect a person should be.  And,  not everyone you meet has to be your soul mate to spend time with them and have a good time with them.  They may just end up being a good friend.  So I say,  go on the date and see how it goes.  If it turns out this guy is a jerk and not a person you want in your life, don't date them again.  Go in without expectations with the exception of just expecting to share some time with another person.  You don't have to marry the guy,  just spend a couple hours or so.  It's not a committment,  it's a date.  No pressures. Get dressed up, go out and enjoy yourself. Give yourself a break, ease your mind and worry over what may or may not happen in the future and take the time now to enjoy yourself and love the person you are.

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My first time here, too... and Happy New Year to all!

 

But I really wanted to respond to 123love.... you sound so sad! Do you feel certain you would recognize your soulmate at first sight?? I really believe we can't know someone at first sight, and may miss many opportunities in our lives when we make choices quickly regarding new people we meet.

 

Your strong vision of you future mate might be strong and true, and yet not be accurate on the physical appearance. Rather a sense of this person's soul, that your imagination attaches a physical image to.

 

Does that make sense??

 

So while you are waiting and hoping, live in the moment and enjoy all of the people who cross your way.

 

And a first date doesn't equal marriage... lol, just a good time perhaps......

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